While she wanted her husband to understand her feelings she never once tried to understand or reason with her husband and everything had to go her way – a total narcissist. It’s been a long time since I’ve seen a more selfish person than her. When the guy left his ring at her apartment she follows him home and keeps on pressing on to him instead of just letting him go even going as far as telling him that he had to grant her wish of never leaving her while she still wants to marry another man (all this happens while she herself earlier in the movie had said that she belongs to no one and that if any one of them wanted out of the relationship they should be allowed to go). She then proceeds to say that she wants to keep it a secret from her parents so obviously she does know why he got mad What follows really showed her true colors. And as for your ending question, yes, you ask too much, this movie was fabulous as it was. Of course it’d be more difficult to live openly like this in Korea than in European countries like Spain, but considering it’s also – considering family (values) – more difficult as non-married (add young, add woman) to have a sex-life, or even a partner, that’s not exactly the issue. Truly a wonderful story, and I’m amazed that it of all countries was made into a movie in super-conservative Korea. There was definately things to laugh about (I saw it with my partner I think her other partner watched it alone), and it was a sheer relief seeing poly taken this seriously.
And, not the least after all the questions I’ve had to answer, I’d say it’s natural to make the movie out of the “poor man’s” perspective, as that’s what people wonder about, not how it was for “the nymphomaniac that can’t be satisfied with just one man, with all the double standards that that implies” (come on, I think you know better than that). After being in a relationship with a Korean woman, who’s also in a relationship with a Korean man, and during almost a year all of us living in the same part of Seoul (in separate apartments), within ten minutes walk from each other, I’d say this movie portrayed polyamory quite realistically.
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